I'm looking for women whose husbands confessed to being gay after years of marriage. But because you had a family, the two of you decided to stay married and go on living together as man and wife for your children's sake. You might have let your husband see other men in secret, during that time too.

I'd like to speak to women in that situation now, as well as women whose children are now grown up and you've since told them them what went on.

Ideally you'll be in your 20s to 60s and will be happy being named and pictured.

If a newspaper or magazine is interested in your story, I will arrange a payment for you for sharing your story with us.

After I've interviewed you, I'll read back to you what I have written so that you can check it's accurate.

If you would like to share your story, it would be great to hear from you.